There comes a time when you need to
step back and rethink all your different priorities. This has
happened to me and I have had to rethink some of my goals as well as
my priorities. I was one of those people that had to please everyone
in the past and I didn't care if I was happy or not. Doing this
causes a lot of problems because you don't really feel happy when you
are doing some of the things you have agreed to do.
Being able to rethink your goals is a
project in itself because you have to think of why are you aiming for
that specific goal, was it to please someone else or to please
yourself. It does take some time because it can also mean redoing
the goal so that it is more for pleasing yourself. Some goals just
get deleted because when you realize you aren't going to achieve it
and be even a bit happy there is no point in doing it.
I was one of those people that had to
please everyone and I would forget about pleasing me. I came to
realize that there are some people that no matter what you do you
will never please them so why try. This step was a huge thing for me
to realize and since doing that I have felt better and have given up
trying to please these people.
I now have goals that are for me and
also to help me be happy. I am not saying that you put yourself
first all the time, I am saying you need to remember to do things
that please you as part of your life. How you feel is very important
because if you aren't happy you can't really make others happy, or at
least the people that count.
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