Intersection lights not working

 Recently we were at an intersection that the traffic lights were not working and what we saw wasn’t something that made either of us happy. We were happy that we were turning right because we weren’t going to have to deal with trying to get across this intersection. What we saw was a lot of people not understanding how to handle an intersection with lights not working. In some instances what we saw were so many people just driving through the intersection as if they had the right of way. 

What we saw was so many people didn’t seem to understand how to handle the intersection. The rule is when you come to an intersection that the traffic lights are not working you need to treat this as a four-way stop. What this doesn’t mean is just to follow the car in front of you no matter what.

The rule clearly starts that you are to come to a complete stop as if you are approaching a four way stop and then only clear the intersection when it is safe to do so. What this doesn’t mean is you can just drive through the intersection as if you are the only one. The best way to handle an intersection when the lights aren’t working is for two of the directions to go at one with only the first row of cars moving and then allowing the other two sets of cars to complete crossing the intersection. Yes, it can be a challenge in some instances because there are going to be individuals that they that they have the right of way no matter what.

Every city as a means of reporting when an intersection doesn’t have working traffic lights, and you just have to figure out where you are and how to report such an issue. In the case of Toronto, they have a clear method of reporting the issue and it is something that everyone needs to know about.

Toronto rule and how to handle it

If you see a traffic light at an intersection in Toronto not working, you should treat the intersection as if it were an uncontrolled intersection, meaning treat it as if each corner has a stop sign. To report the malfunctioning light to the City of Toronto, you can call 311 or use their online service request system. 

Summary

So, when you get to an intersection that the traffic lights are not working remember to treat this as if it is a four way stop and not just immediately follow the car in front of you. If you simply just follow that car in front of you, there are changes that you could be involved in a serious accident, and you don’t want to be in it or the cause of it.

Children and high C versus well behaved children

 How many times have you been somewhere and you have heard at least one child screaming and hitting what seems to be high C. We were in a Tim Horton's recently and there was one child that seems to think it was fun to run around and scream loudly and at the high C. The mother just laughed it off and said "well at least everyone is awake now". The child continued to run around and the parents didn't do any discipling which was wrong. If you have a child that is causing a disturbance it is up to you to make sure that they are being told what they are doing wrong.

This same child was running all over the place and getting in the way of other customers which didn't help. The child figured they had the right of way and if they wanted to run and stand in the way they could. The parents just continued to pay attention to the other children in their family and ignored this child. When the kid screamed because she wasn't getting her way they just let the child scream.

When you are out and have children, it is very important to ensure that they are respecting the other guests in a restaurant. In some cases, this child could cause an accident, and the parents would probably say that the other customer should have been watching where they were walking. We have also seen children that are very well behaved, and they listen to what their parents are saying, and they don't run around at all. Just as I was writing that last sentence, a child decided it was time to have a breakdown because they weren't getting their way.

There are also the times when children and climbing all of the seats and parents are encouraging this behaviour. What this is shows that sure the children might be burning off some energy, but would you want to sit down on a seat where a bunch of children have been climbing all over the seats.

Parents need to consider others around them and not just thinking that their children's behaviour is ok with everyone. How a children acts can really show a lot about the parents are raising them. I know that I have seen parents that ignore their children and then there are parents that are full time and into whatever they children are doing.

Bucket List Concert

I think we all have a few concerts that we would like to see and one of mine was to see Il Divo perform in person and in October 2025 that dream became a reality when we went to the OLG Stage at Fallsview Casino in Niagara Falls Ontario.

I had been looking forward to this concert for quite a while and as it got closer, I started listening to the songs that I had and watch videos on YouTube of them as I was very excited to have a chance to see them there in Ontario, Canada. As the concert was in Niagara Falls, we decided to make it a mini-vacation and spent a couple of nights in Niagara Falls. Before we went to the concert, I mentioned to my husband that I hoped that they would sing one of my favourite songs and that is “Passera”. Of course, I listened to that song a few times before the concert, and I think my husband was getting tired of hearing it. 

The concert started as they had a feature act and that was “Simply Three” and their music was really nice and something that we both enjoyed. After this trio performed it was time for Il Divo and sure we were not sitting right down at the stage but the fact that we were there is what was important. They performed their opening song and then, I heard a few notes of a song that I had been waiting to hear. Yes, the second song that Il Divo performed at the concert was Passera and I was able to get a video of that song being performed and I have wanted it quite a few times since then.

The entire concert was wonderful, and I know that I was smiling through it all because a bucket list concert had been achieved and the song that I wanted to hear them perform live happened as well. We all have bucket list concerts or shows that we want to see and sometimes we just have to go for it and make it happen. Would I go and see Il Divo perform again, absolutely because it was a great show and I am happy we made it happen.

So, if you have a concert that you would like to see make sure you keep an eye on where the group or individual is performing because you never know when you will have that chance to make off something that is on your bucket list.

Winter in Ontario

There are some years when we get to Christmas and we look out the window and wonder if we are ever going to get snow and then there are the years that we have snow way before Christmas. This year we had snow earlier in December and then most of it melted so Christmas at least in Toronto was one of those where you could wear running snows and not worry about slipping and sliding. 

In southern Ontario the snow came on December 26^th when we got hit with quite a bit of snow. Of course, it made driving rather difficult so anyone that was heading off to see relations had to deal with snow covered roads for most of the day. For us, it was a day to stay home and not think about venturing out. We finally did go out on the 30^th of December just to get out and see what it was like out, but boots were part of what was needed for that trip out.

The weather has also been very cold which hasn’t helped at all because it isn’t even enjoyable being out in the snow so for us it’s been a season of hiding at home and not wanting to deal with the wind chill that we have been getting. Being able to go out only when we had to go out was nice.

January 5^th which was the first day back to work and school was met with another 10 cm (4 inches) of snow which isn’t something anyone wanted to see when they were trying to commute to work. It resulted in a rather messy day on the roads. Being able to work at home does have its advantages because we didn’t have to deal with the traffic or the snow.

Here it is the next day when I write this, and we are now under a freezing rain warning with a possible accumulation of 1 to 5 mm of ice accretion or build up possible. This isn’t the start to the new year that people have wanted. School buses outside of Toronto have been cancelled because of this year so it isn’t the start that anyone wanted. The forecast for the next few days so looks like it is going to warm up some so we will see if that really happens. We may still get rain but the forecast for Friday is 9C (48F) so a lot of the snow is going to melt.

Yes, winter in Ontario is so different and you don’t have to drive very far out of the City of Toronto before you see lots more snow. We will see what the rest of the winter is like and know that there are other places even in Ontario and other parts of Canada that are getting worse weather than us.

Why people do online shopping versing going into a store

There are so many times that I wonder why people do online shopping versus going to a store to buy and purchase something else. I think I have figured out why, just being able to purchase things in a store makes me happy, but you have to understand that there are times that I would like to just walk into a store and pick up the items that I need and not have someone trying to figure out how they can help me when I know what I want and I know where to find things. 

What I have found is that sometimes I need to figure out what is available online and maybe it is more important to just pick up the items that I need versus doing an online order. Sometimes there are things that you might be able to find online, but the delivery is going to be three or four days, but it is available in the store immediately, so you have to make the decision if picking it up in person is more important than getting the item delivered.

What is overwhelming is trying to figure out if doing an online pick up for an item in store, versus going into the store to find the item versus ordering the item online and getting it delivered, which is better. It can be such a challenge to figure out the price difference and the timing difference because there are times that ordering something online and getting it delivered means you will get it faster with last frustrations than going into the store and trying to find the item or standing around waiting while a person tries to find your online order.

It can be such a frustrating thing to try and figure out what is the best way to find a items, but it might not be available to purchase in store, and it might be available to purchase online for a store pickup but that is going to be longer than if I just purchase online and get it delivered to my house and if I purchase enough I will get free shipping.

In our case we discovered that something that I wanted to purchase was available at the store that we were visiting but when I checked online those items were not available in that specific location. Before we went to the store I decided to look up what was available for a specific scent and they told me that nothing was available, but when we got there the quantity that was available was far more than I expected. I was able to purchase what I wanted without having to dig through multiple bins to find what I wanted, and I walked out with more than I originally thought I might be able to get.

So something that I found is that the company website might tell you that I an item you are looking for might not be available in that location but you need to do to that location because it might just be sitting on a shelf and is ready to be purchased.

Another year has come and gone, 2025

Here it is the start of a new year, and it is time to look back to see what happened in this last year. The good news is I was able to post a blog every week in 2025 which was good. Now what happened in the middle of September, I’m not quite sure, but I started posting 2 blogs a week, because I started writing even more. I didn’t think the two blogs a week was going to last, but I must admit that it has continued to happen and let’s see what 2026 has in store.

One of things that I did in 2025 was really focus on getting blogs written and it didn’t matter to me when they were going to be posted, it just matters to me that I had a blog that I wrote and it was going to be posted in the future. Sure, having lots of blogs scheduled into the future has meant some rescheduling of the blogs, but that doesn’t me as I just keep moving the different blogs forward and that means that I have things ready to post in the future. 

My writing has been very important to me this past year and I hope through 2026 I can continue to write lots of posts like I have in the past. I have some ideas for some other topics so we will see what happens with them. Until then I am going to say I hope everyone has had a good holiday season if you celebrate, and I look forward to continuing to get more blogs written in 2026.